The Courage to Overcome Divisiveness

Cathie Leimbach • May 24, 2022

We are living in very divisive times. Do we have the courage to overcome the division that stresses our communities and our lives?

Currently, divisiveness in the United States is the greatest it has been since the Civil War, says Chuck Mingo, the founder of Living Undivided. We tend to be afraid of the unknown and afraid to ask questions about things we aren’t familiar with. This fear often results in us lashing out against the realities around us that we done understand. Mingo says this fear is unconstructive, unrelenting, and unresponsive. He has a passion to help people overcome this fear by having the courage to reach out and collaborate with those who are different than us.

Mingo and others suggest that the opposite of fear is courage. Perhaps the best way to overcome fear is to have the courage to get to know people who are different than us. We need to move through our fear courageously, not skirt around the things that we are afraid of.

Courageous love may be the most effective way to overcome the fear of differences.  We can love people who aren’t like us at work, in our families, and in the community if we believe that they are worthy human beings and take time to get to know them. This allows us to understand each other, which usually leads to us finding common ground. Then we can build bridges that reduce divisiveness so everyone can have a less stressful and more meaningful life.

When we live with fear and indifference, we let poor conditions and situations thrive. However, when we have the courage to take the time to listen to each other’s stories and perspectives, we usually discover that we can live side by side without being fearful.

Within your leadership context, where could you be exhibiting courageous love? Where can you build bridges to understanding that add value to your life and the lives of those around you?  

From Performance Problems to Possibilities

By Cathie Leimbach • March 17, 2026
Most leaders can list what’s wrong fast: missed deadlines, uneven effort, or teams that seem capable of more. The bigger shift happens when leaders stop asking, “What’s broken?” and start asking, “What’s possible if we lead differently?” Limits like time, budget, and pressure are common. The resulting overwhelm is reduced when leaders get clear about what really matters. Strong leaders respond to these limits by focusing on priorities, simplifying decisions, and actively guiding their teams. Often, the shift begins with better leadership conversations. The right conversations clarify expectations, surface issues early, and help people take ownership before small problems grow into bigger ones. When leaders create space for clear, honest dialogue, teams stop guessing and start moving forward. Performance improves when leaders: Get clear instead of assuming Address issues early through direct conversations Set priorities people can follow Notice and praise progress, don’t comment only on mistakes These small, steady choices create momentum. We often hear questions like: “How do we stop reacting?” “What if our team is capable but inconsistent?” “How do we improve without burning people out?” Those questions point to opportunities for growth. Don’t think of them as failure. 👉 Where might your team be guessing instead of knowing? Identify one gap—and use your next conversation to close it.

From Firefighting to Predictable Performance

By Cathie Leimbach • March 10, 2026
Most leaders don’t struggle because they don’t care. They struggle because every day feels reactive. One issue gets fixed, and another one pops up right away. What separates high-performing teams from constant firefighting is simple: predictable leadership . When leaders are consistent, teams become consistent. People know what “good” looks like. They know how decisions are made. They know when feedback will happen. That removes stress and guesswork. Teams quickly learn what leaders reinforce and what they let slide. When expectations, follow-up, and accountability happen the same way every time, focus goes up and chaos goes down. This is how leaders move from reacting to leading. Regular check-ins replace urgent interruptions. Clear ownership replaces confusion. Small problems get handled early instead of turning into big ones. Much of this predictability is built through simple leadership conversations that clarify expectations, reinforce priorities, and address small issues before they grow. The result? Fewer surprises. More trust. Better momentum. 👉 If leadership sometimes feels more reactive than predictable, join our Leadership Conversation on March 17 at 3:00 PM to explore a few small shifts that can stabilize performance.