Be Trustworthy!

Cathie Leimbach • June 6, 2022

Trust is essential for success in any and all aspects of our lives. When we don’t trust others, we don’t want to spend time with them or collaborate with them. Likewise, when we aren’t trustworthy, others don’t want to work or play with us. The degree to which leaders are trusted by the people around them determines whether they are likely to be leading an enthusiastic results-oriented team or surrounded by lethargic and disgruntled low performers.  


Trust is so important that it is the focus of David Horsager’s company, Trust Edge. Trust can be defined as a “firm belief in the reliability, truth, ability, or strength of someone or something”. Do your boss, peers, employees, customers, and suppliers all believe that you are reliable, honest, and skilled? If not, then they don’t see you as trustworthy. Their lack of trust in you is impacting the organization’s performance.


Increasing trust creates transformation. When leaders learn to balance transparency, consistent communication, and healthy, results-based accountability, their colleagues perceive them as more trustworthy. This is true for in-person, virtual, and hybrid work situations. A lack of trust breeds a lack of uncertainty which increases fear. This sparks our natural fight or flight instinct which reduces productivity and increases dissatisfaction, decreasing morale, performance, and retention.


Unfortunately, lack of trust is very common. 10% of people say they have never had a leader or employer they could fully trust. On average, employees indicate that they have mostly or completely trusted their leaders for only 45% of their work life. In early 2022, only 13% of the workforce reported completely trusting their current employer.


Since everything takes longer and costs more when trust is low, the lack of trust can be an organization’s biggest expense. 94% of Americans say that lack of trust affects their performance. Collaboration and strong connections among workplace colleagues create the foundation for business success. Yet, the majority of senior leaders spend more time on finances, technology, strategy, and production than they do on people and culture.


How much attention are you giving to connecting and collaborating with your people? What about engaging and empowering them by helping them know what is expected of them and ensuring they feel valued? Are you one of the 13% of leaders who are seen as trustworthy or one of the 87% who are contributing to suboptimal results by not paying enough attention to organizational culture and valuing your people? If you’re in the majority, when are you going to take your first step towards being more trustworthy and what will that first step be?  

Listening Is Key to Effective One-on-Ones

By Cathie Leimbach • September 15, 2026
Tom walked into his one-on-one feeling relieved. For a week, he had been struggling with two critical assignments. His supervisor had delegated them without much context, and Tom wasn’t clear about the desired results or how to get started. Surely, he thought, we can sort this out today. Fifteen minutes later, Tom walked back to his desk just as confused. His supervisor had done nearly all the talking—reviewing priorities, sharing updates, and reminding Tom that the two assignments were important. But he never asked the question Tom needed to hear: “What do you need from me to be successful?” When One-on-Ones Become One-Way Conversations This happens more often than we might think. Leaders enter one-on-ones with a list of things they need to communicate. They talk through the list, ask if there are any questions, and move on to the next meeting. But a one-on-one should do more than transfer information. Its purpose is to help the employee succeed. That requires conversation—and conversation requires listening. Ask what the employee wants to discuss. Listen for what is getting in the way. Do they need clearer expectations? More training? Better resources? Help making a decision? Encouragement that they are headed in the right direction? Then determine together what each of you will do next. Try This in Your Next One-on-One Instead of starting with your agenda, begin with one simple question: “What would be most helpful for us to talk about today?” Then listen. You may discover that the most valuable thing you contribute to the meeting isn’t what you say. It’s what you learn. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ If this has you thinking about the conversations you have with your team, join me at the Workplace Conversation Clinic on September 21 . Bring a question about your one-on-ones or a conversation you’re finding difficult, and let’s work through it together. RESERVE YOUR SPOT HERE

Are you Supporting Your Employees to Overcome Hurdles?

By Cathie Leimbach • September 8, 2026
For weeks, Mary had been frustrated with frequently occurring delays in shipping. During her one-on-one with her supervisor, she finally told him what was going on. He listened, asked questions, and said he would look into it. She left the meeting feeling encouraged. Maybe this situation would finally get resolved. A week later, her supervisor started their one-on-one by asking “So, what do you want to talk about today?” He didn’t mention what he had learned about the problem in shipping. “Of course not!,” she thought. “Nothing is going to change.” So, she sadly replied, “Nothing really. Everything’s fine.” Sometimes employees stop talking because experience has taught them that speaking up doesn’t make any difference. One-on-ones are an opportunity to change that. Give the employee a voice in what gets discussed. Help them address bottlenecks. Follow-up on your to dos from the conversation. It can be as simple as: “Last week we talked about the shipping problem. I checked into it, and here’s what I found out. A possible solution would be this .... How do think that might work? ... What other ideas do you have?” The message is clear: I heard you. I remembered. What you have to say matters. And when employees believe their concerns and ideas matter, they’re more likely to keep speaking up. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ What Workplace Conversation Are You Struggling With? Maybe an employee has stopped talking. Maybe you’re dealing with accountability, conflict, attendance, performance—or simply a conversation you’re not quite sure how to approach. Bring it to the FREE Workplace Conversations Clinic on September 21. Join Cathie Leimbach and other leaders to talk through real workplace people challenges, hear different perspectives, and get ideas for moving forward. Register Here