8 Pillars of Trust
Cathie Leimbach • June 14, 2022
David Horsager has been considered a leading authority on trust for over a decade. His best-selling books, The Trust Edge and Trusted Leader, share the insights that have helped him guide others in building their trustworthiness and a culture of trust in their organizations.
Trusted Leader expounds on 8 Pillars of Trust which are the foundation of our trustworthiness and, thus, our ability to be a leader worth following. As you review these 8 pillars below, consider which may be your strengths and which are important areas of growth for you?
Horsager suggests that the first pillars to work on to enhance trust in ourselves and our organization are Clarity, Compassion, Connection, and Consistency.
- Clarity means being crystal clear about what is to be achieved. This includes the when, where, why, and how of the work to be done. People want to fully understand what is expected so they can meet expectations. When there is ambiguity about what is to be accomplished, employees often receive negative feedback about their performance. Such experiences increase workplace stress and turnover, thus lowering individual and organizational success.
- Compassion is caring for others as valuable human beings. It includes putting people above the work itself. For example, be patient with a man whose workplace energy falls a little while he is adjusting to sleep interruption after welcoming a newborn into his family.
- Connection with other people requires that you respect them and believe they can add value. Show connection by collaborating with them. Ask them questions that seek their perspective and ideas. Listen attentively to their answers and engage them in ways that validate their input.
- Consistency in both big things and little things shows reliability. And people trust those who are reliable. They want to follow leaders whom they can count on.
The other 4 pillars are Character, Competency, Commitment, and Contribution.
- Character refers to doing what is right even when it isn’t easy.
- Competency is important because people have confidence in leaders who are capable and expand their capabilities to meet changing circumstances.
- Commitment is demonstrated when leaders are dedicated to the organization and its goals even when the work or the times get tough.
- Contribution is expected of leaders. To be trusted leaders must apply themselves and get results that move the organization and its people forward.
After considering Horsager’s 8 Pillars of Trust, how would you rate your trustworthiness? Which pillars are contributing to others’ trust in you? Which weaker pillar will you focus on strengthening over the next few weeks?
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Jason left his one-on-one feeling encouraged. His supervisor, Ellen, had listened as he described competing deadlines and his interest in becoming a team leader. They talked about the possibility of shifting some of his workload. Ellen also suggested that training might help him prepare for a leadership role. "Let's work on that," she said. Jason thought help was coming. Ellen thought Jason would bring her a plan. Two weeks later, the deadlines were closer. Nothing had been reassigned. Neither had looked into training. During their next one-on-one, Ellen asked how things were going. "I'm still waiting to hear which project you want me to focus on," Jason said. "I thought we agreed that you would work that out." "And the leadership training?" "Did you find a course?" Jason paused. "I thought you were going to recommend one." They had discussed the same topics. They had left with different expectations. Neither intended to let the other down. But they hadn't agreed on who would do what, or when. Turn a Good Conversation into Clear Next Steps Listening matters. So does what happens after you listen. Before you end your next one-on-one, take a few minutes to make sure you and your employee understand what comes next. Talk about priorities. If everything can't be done at once, agree on what comes first. Ask what might get in the way, and what support would help. Make room for professional growth, too. What does the employee want to learn? What responsibility would they like to prepare for? Identify a step you can each take to move that development forward. Then write down your agreements. Keep the notes simple: what needs to happen, who will do it, and by when. Include your own commitments. Putting It Into Practice Ellen and Jason tried again. "The client proposal comes first," Ellen said. "I'll talk with Marcus today about taking over the weekly report. By Friday, I'll let you know whether he can." "I'll find two leadership courses before our next meeting," Jason said. "Then we can talk about which one fits." Both Jason and Ellen knew what to do next. The following week, both reported their findings and they made decisions on how to move forward. Jason’s work became more aligned with Ellen’s departmental goals. Jason felt valued and appreciated. Their weekly one-to-ones became the backbone of their workplace success. Want to Make Your Workplace Conversations More Productive? Join us for the Workplace Conversations Clinic on October 19 . Bring a conversation you want to handle more effectively, and let's work on making the next steps clear. Register Here
