Understanding the Decisive Behavioral Style

Cathie Leimbach • August 10, 2021

Being aware of your and your employees' primary and backup workplace behavior styles will make you a better leader. This self-awareness helps you to:

  • more quickly engage and motivate each of your employees
  • recognize your own strengths and weaknesses
  • communicate more effectively with each employee by tailoring conversations to fit their workplace behavioral style.

 

When someone’s primary behavioral work style is decisive they tend to blend a low level of emotional responsiveness with a relatively high degree of assertiveness. Individuals with this behavioral style tend to make decisions using logical analysis, weighing the pros and cons objectively. They prefer to focus on possibilities and the big picture.

 

Members of your team with Decisive as their primary work style tend to have the following strengths:

  • goal-oriented
  • achievement-driven
  • independent
  • analytical
  • conceptual
  • inventive
  • logical

 

They will take their time to concentrate and give correct answers. Challenges, variety, and change are enjoyed and keep them motivated and engaged.

 

Limitations to the Decisive work style include:

  • impatience
  • insensitivity
  • becoming bored by routine and details
  • demanding
  • blunt
  • poor listeners

 

Leaders with this Decisive style will benefit from being aware of their limitations and becoming conscious of modifying communication, practicing better listening skills, and effectively connecting with team members who have other work styles. 

 

Management effectiveness can be improved by practicing different ways of communicating with their employees. For example:

 

Rather than saying "Ok, let's just get this done now" to the team (impatient and demanding),

Do this instead. "I would like to get this completed by next Thursday. What do you need from me to reach that goal?

 

Rather than saying, "You are just not doing a good job" (both blunt and insensitive)

Do this instead using open-ended questions. "I have noticed that you have been having difficulties meeting deadlines. What has been causing you to miss deadlines? How I can help?"

 

There are challenges with the Decisive work style. These employees may find it difficult to interact effectively within their team. Because they want to get to the point quickly, they may not listen well to other team members. Their results-oriented and competitive nature can shut down the contribution of other co-workers.

 

Coaching these employees will almost always include helping them learn more effective communication strategies. Because they are logic-based and analytical, provide reasons why communicating differently with their team members will be beneficial. 

 

Make sure that they are in a right-fit position within the team. Employees with the Decisive work style make outstanding researchers and can strengthen the team by contributing their analytical perspective and objectivity. Positioned correctly, the rest of the team will value the input provided.

 

Providing feedback on the quality of their work will be motivating and keep these employees engaged. Recognize their capabilities and ideas. Give them opportunities to learn and build competencies and logical processes.

 

Because Decisive employees can become bored by routines, make sure that they are consistently challenged and able to explore new ideas and options.

Performance Conversations: Clarity Is Kindness

By Cathie Leimbach • July 7, 2026
Most leaders want better performance. They want employees who take ownership, meet expectations, solve problems, and continue growing. Yet many leaders seldom initiate performance conversations – and when they do, it doesn’t go well. Leaders often hesitate because they fear discouraging people. Employees, meanwhile, don't know if they are missing the target. This can be costly. Research highlighted in McKinsey's Courageous Conversations article found that organizations with strong performance practices are four times more likely to outperform their peers. Yet fewer than one-third of employees believe performance reviews actually help them improve. The problem is not just a lack of performance conversations. It's a lack of clarity. The article points to a simple but powerful distinction: separate the hardware of performance from the software of performance. The hardware includes facts, goals, KPIs, commitments, timelines, and standards. The software includes tone, timing, relationships, empathy, and intent. When leaders clearly explain the facts while delivering them with care and respect, employees become more receptive to improvement. Strong leaders don't judge people—they diagnose work.  They focus on behaviors, actions, and results rather than character. They clarify expectations, provide coaching, and create frequent opportunities for alignment. In high-performing cultures, clarity isn't viewed as criticism. It is viewed as support. As the article notes, "Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is a burden." Employees deserve to know where they stand, what success looks like, and how to improve. When leaders provide that clarity with dignity and respect, performance conversations become growth conversations. And growth is where better results begin. Download the Performance Conversations: Hardware & Software Checklist for Leaders and learn how to have everyday performance discussions that include opportunities for growth, accountability, and stronger results.

Trust-Building Conversations

By Cathie Leimbach • June 30, 2026
Most workplace tension doesn't come from major conflicts. It comes from too few conversations. A disappointment that was never discussed. A broken agreement that was never repaired. Appreciation that was never expressed. Over time, these "withholds" create friction that slows collaboration, weakens trust, and makes even simple conversations feel difficult. The strongest teams don't avoid tension—they address it early. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey article found that unresolved tensions can significantly reduce team effectiveness, while high-trust teams consistently outperform their peers. The difference isn't the absence of problems. It's the willingness to talk about them. One of the most practical leadership habits is creating regular opportunities for transparent interaction. That includes appreciation. People should hear what they're doing well far more often than they hear about their shortfalls. Specific, genuine recognition builds trust over time. Those trust deposits matter because once positive relationships are built, difficult conversation are more likely to accept the message . When correction is needed, reinforce that you value the person, even though they aren’t perfect. The goal is growth, not judgment. But leaders should be careful not to make appreciation transactional. If positive feedback has been absent for months, suddenly offering praise immediately before a critique usually feels insincere. Trust is built through a steady pattern of recognition, encouragement, and honest conversation—not a last-minute compliment. Transparent leaders also address issues early. Small frustrations become large resentments when left unresolved. Teams that clear the air quickly spend less energy managing tension and more energy producing results. The result? Less friction. More trust. Stronger relationships. Better performance. Because healthy conversations don't just solve problems—they strengthen the team. Free Leader Guide: 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations The best leaders don't wait for tension to become conflict. They build trust before it's needed. Download our 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations guide to learn practical ways to strengthen relationships, reduce friction, and create a culture where honest conversations lead to better performance. Download the guide and start building trust one conversation at a time.