Supporting People to Fulfill High Expectations

Cathie Leimbach • February 7, 2022

Believing the best of people usually brings out the best in people. When you tell people what you expect, you believe in their capacity to meet your expectations, and they feel valued, they will be motivated to fulfill high expectations. But, when people don’t know what you expect from them, don’t know if they are on track, and don’t have your support to do their job well, don’t be surprised by underperformance.   


If you want your team members to achieve more, here are 3 ways that you can support them towards fulfilling high expectations.


1.      Co-Create Goals

Rather than simply telling your people what you expect them to accomplish, review with them the organization’s mission, values, and goals; discuss why their role is valuable; and invite their ideas about what they could contribute towards fulfilling the company’s goals. Explore how their preferences can be aligned with the company’s needs and together develop meaningful goals. Your belief in their ability to add value at work encourages them to put their best foot forward. They are more likely to buy-in and achieve such co-created goals.   

 

2.      Be Clear on the Quality, Quantity, and Timeline for Achieving the Goals

Ensure the Co-Created Goals are clear. Doing better this year can be achieved by a 1% increase in sales but you might be expecting a 10% gain. As well as being clear about the quantity of results you expect, be specific about the quality required. State the measurable outcome you expect each day or month, and reinforce your expectation by monitoring performance. 

   

3.      Provide Frequent Feedback and Support

Setting high expectations, yet not acknowledging when they are achieved, demotivates your employees. If it is not important enough for you to praise their work, then their work must not really matter. When you find that the goals haven’t been met, talk with your employees to discover what prevented them from meeting your expectations and support them in overcoming these obstacles. When you demonstrate that the goals really matter and you believe they have the potential to meet your expectations, people will rise to the occasion.  Weekly manager-employee one-on-ones provide regular opportunities for the manager to lift their people up with praise and encouragement and for the employee to ask for guidance.

 

When managers have high expectations for their team members, believe in their capacity to contribute, and support them in overcoming hurdles along the way, their employees will be empowered to fulfill those expectations. Individuals, managers, and organizations win when managers engage their employees and support them to achieving meaningful goals.

Listening Is Key to Effective One-on-Ones

By Cathie Leimbach • September 15, 2026
Tom walked into his one-on-one feeling relieved. For a week, he had been struggling with two critical assignments. His supervisor had delegated them without much context, and Tom wasn’t clear about the desired results or how to get started. Surely, he thought, we can sort this out today. Fifteen minutes later, Tom walked back to his desk just as confused. His supervisor had done nearly all the talking—reviewing priorities, sharing updates, and reminding Tom that the two assignments were important. But he never asked the question Tom needed to hear: “What do you need from me to be successful?” When One-on-Ones Become One-Way Conversations This happens more often than we might think. Leaders enter one-on-ones with a list of things they need to communicate. They talk through the list, ask if there are any questions, and move on to the next meeting. But a one-on-one should do more than transfer information. Its purpose is to help the employee succeed. That requires conversation—and conversation requires listening. Ask what the employee wants to discuss. Listen for what is getting in the way. Do they need clearer expectations? More training? Better resources? Help making a decision? Encouragement that they are headed in the right direction? Then determine together what each of you will do next. Try This in Your Next One-on-One Instead of starting with your agenda, begin with one simple question: “What would be most helpful for us to talk about today?” Then listen. You may discover that the most valuable thing you contribute to the meeting isn’t what you say. It’s what you learn. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ If this has you thinking about the conversations you have with your team, join me at the Workplace Conversation Clinic on September 21 . Bring a question about your one-on-ones or a conversation you’re finding difficult, and let’s work through it together. RESERVE YOUR SPOT HERE

Are you Supporting Your Employees to Overcome Hurdles?

By Cathie Leimbach • September 8, 2026
For weeks, Mary had been frustrated with frequently occurring delays in shipping. During her one-on-one with her supervisor, she finally told him what was going on. He listened, asked questions, and said he would look into it. She left the meeting feeling encouraged. Maybe this situation would finally get resolved. A week later, her supervisor started their one-on-one by asking “So, what do you want to talk about today?” He didn’t mention what he had learned about the problem in shipping. “Of course not!,” she thought. “Nothing is going to change.” So, she sadly replied, “Nothing really. Everything’s fine.” Sometimes employees stop talking because experience has taught them that speaking up doesn’t make any difference. One-on-ones are an opportunity to change that. Give the employee a voice in what gets discussed. Help them address bottlenecks. Follow-up on your to dos from the conversation. It can be as simple as: “Last week we talked about the shipping problem. I checked into it, and here’s what I found out. A possible solution would be this .... How do think that might work? ... What other ideas do you have?” The message is clear: I heard you. I remembered. What you have to say matters. And when employees believe their concerns and ideas matter, they’re more likely to keep speaking up. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ What Workplace Conversation Are You Struggling With? Maybe an employee has stopped talking. Maybe you’re dealing with accountability, conflict, attendance, performance—or simply a conversation you’re not quite sure how to approach. Bring it to the FREE Workplace Conversations Clinic on September 21. Join Cathie Leimbach and other leaders to talk through real workplace people challenges, hear different perspectives, and get ideas for moving forward. Register Here