Supporting People to Fulfill High Expectations

Cathie Leimbach • February 7, 2022

Believing the best of people usually brings out the best in people. When you tell people what you expect, you believe in their capacity to meet your expectations, and they feel valued, they will be motivated to fulfill high expectations. But, when people don’t know what you expect from them, don’t know if they are on track, and don’t have your support to do their job well, don’t be surprised by underperformance.   


If you want your team members to achieve more, here are 3 ways that you can support them towards fulfilling high expectations.


1.      Co-Create Goals

Rather than simply telling your people what you expect them to accomplish, review with them the organization’s mission, values, and goals; discuss why their role is valuable; and invite their ideas about what they could contribute towards fulfilling the company’s goals. Explore how their preferences can be aligned with the company’s needs and together develop meaningful goals. Your belief in their ability to add value at work encourages them to put their best foot forward. They are more likely to buy-in and achieve such co-created goals.   

 

2.      Be Clear on the Quality, Quantity, and Timeline for Achieving the Goals

Ensure the Co-Created Goals are clear. Doing better this year can be achieved by a 1% increase in sales but you might be expecting a 10% gain. As well as being clear about the quantity of results you expect, be specific about the quality required. State the measurable outcome you expect each day or month, and reinforce your expectation by monitoring performance. 

   

3.      Provide Frequent Feedback and Support

Setting high expectations, yet not acknowledging when they are achieved, demotivates your employees. If it is not important enough for you to praise their work, then their work must not really matter. When you find that the goals haven’t been met, talk with your employees to discover what prevented them from meeting your expectations and support them in overcoming these obstacles. When you demonstrate that the goals really matter and you believe they have the potential to meet your expectations, people will rise to the occasion.  Weekly manager-employee one-on-ones provide regular opportunities for the manager to lift their people up with praise and encouragement and for the employee to ask for guidance.

 

When managers have high expectations for their team members, believe in their capacity to contribute, and support them in overcoming hurdles along the way, their employees will be empowered to fulfill those expectations. Individuals, managers, and organizations win when managers engage their employees and support them to achieving meaningful goals.

Performance Conversations: Clarity Is Kindness

By Cathie Leimbach • July 7, 2026
Most leaders want better performance. They want employees who take ownership, meet expectations, solve problems, and continue growing. Yet many leaders seldom initiate performance conversations – and when they do, it doesn’t go well. Leaders often hesitate because they fear discouraging people. Employees, meanwhile, don't know if they are missing the target. This can be costly. Research highlighted in McKinsey's Courageous Conversations article found that organizations with strong performance practices are four times more likely to outperform their peers. Yet fewer than one-third of employees believe performance reviews actually help them improve. The problem is not just a lack of performance conversations. It's a lack of clarity. The article points to a simple but powerful distinction: separate the hardware of performance from the software of performance. The hardware includes facts, goals, KPIs, commitments, timelines, and standards. The software includes tone, timing, relationships, empathy, and intent. When leaders clearly explain the facts while delivering them with care and respect, employees become more receptive to improvement. Strong leaders don't judge people—they diagnose work.  They focus on behaviors, actions, and results rather than character. They clarify expectations, provide coaching, and create frequent opportunities for alignment. In high-performing cultures, clarity isn't viewed as criticism. It is viewed as support. As the article notes, "Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is a burden." Employees deserve to know where they stand, what success looks like, and how to improve. When leaders provide that clarity with dignity and respect, performance conversations become growth conversations. And growth is where better results begin. Download the Performance Conversations: Hardware & Software Checklist for Leaders and learn how to have everyday performance discussions that include opportunities for growth, accountability, and stronger results.

Trust-Building Conversations

By Cathie Leimbach • June 30, 2026
Most workplace tension doesn't come from major conflicts. It comes from too few conversations. A disappointment that was never discussed. A broken agreement that was never repaired. Appreciation that was never expressed. Over time, these "withholds" create friction that slows collaboration, weakens trust, and makes even simple conversations feel difficult. The strongest teams don't avoid tension—they address it early. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey article found that unresolved tensions can significantly reduce team effectiveness, while high-trust teams consistently outperform their peers. The difference isn't the absence of problems. It's the willingness to talk about them. One of the most practical leadership habits is creating regular opportunities for transparent interaction. That includes appreciation. People should hear what they're doing well far more often than they hear about their shortfalls. Specific, genuine recognition builds trust over time. Those trust deposits matter because once positive relationships are built, difficult conversation are more likely to accept the message . When correction is needed, reinforce that you value the person, even though they aren’t perfect. The goal is growth, not judgment. But leaders should be careful not to make appreciation transactional. If positive feedback has been absent for months, suddenly offering praise immediately before a critique usually feels insincere. Trust is built through a steady pattern of recognition, encouragement, and honest conversation—not a last-minute compliment. Transparent leaders also address issues early. Small frustrations become large resentments when left unresolved. Teams that clear the air quickly spend less energy managing tension and more energy producing results. The result? Less friction. More trust. Stronger relationships. Better performance. Because healthy conversations don't just solve problems—they strengthen the team. Free Leader Guide: 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations The best leaders don't wait for tension to become conflict. They build trust before it's needed. Download our 5 Practices for Trust-Building Conversations guide to learn practical ways to strengthen relationships, reduce friction, and create a culture where honest conversations lead to better performance. Download the guide and start building trust one conversation at a time.