Recharge This Holiday Season

Cathie Leimbach • November 29, 2022

Many people who are driven to achieve don’t make it a priority to rest, relax, and reflect. They are risking overwhelm and burnout rather than making a difference. Exertion, intense focus, and stress tire our bodies and our minds, negatively impacting results.  To be successful in reaching meaningful goals it is essential to step away from the treadmill of activity and hard thinking. Sprinters can’t keep running indefinitely.  They need to slow down and stretch their muscles.  They need to nourish their bodies.  People are most effective when they take time to recharge along the way.

To regain our creativity, motivation, and focus, we can:   

  • Rest by taking a break from activity or work and having peace of mind or spirit;
  • Relax by taking a break from work or stress to engage in an enjoyable activity;
  • Reflect on our progress by meditating on a thought, action, or idea to gain insights.

During the U.S. Civil War, Abraham Lincoln told stories. He went to the theater frequently.  He took time to unwind despite the turbulent times. Lincoln needed some relief from the stress he was carrying.

During World War II, Franklin D Roosevelt hosted a cocktail party at the White House every night. He insisted that there be no talk of the war despite the turbulent times.  The purpose of this event was to offer a mental break and an emotional recharge.

We are experiencing turbulent times. We need to recharge before the first business day of 2023. What are you going to do to recharge during this holiday season?  How will you rest and relax?  When will you reflect in preparation for a successful new year? 

Feedback Isn't a Download. It's a Dialogue.

By Cathie Leimbach • July 14, 2026
Most leaders know they should give feedback. Yet many avoid it. Not because they don't care, but because they worry they'll discourage someone, create conflict, or say the wrong thing. Unfortunately, when feedback is delayed, vague, or avoided, employees don't feel supported—they feel uncertain. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey Quarterly article found that employees who receive regular, specific feedback are significantly more engaged than those who don't. The problem isn't that employees dislike feedback. They dislike feedback that feels judgmental, unclear, or disconnected from their growth. The strongest leaders understand something important: Feedback isn't a download. It's a dialogue. When leaders approach feedback as an employee development conversation rather than a list of mistakes, people become more open to hearing hard truths and more motivated to improve. Effective feedback communicates two powerful messages at the same time: I respect you. I believe you can grow. That combination changes everything. The best leaders don't simply evaluate past performance; they help employees see future potential. Rather than focusing only on what went wrong, they provide feedforward —guidance on what someone can do to become even more successful. High-performing organizations understand a simple truth: Improvement requires input. The question for leaders isn't whether to give feedback. It's whether our feedback leaves people feeling smaller—or stronger. Feedback doesn't change people. Better conversations do. Download our one-page guide: 5 Practices That Turn Feedback Into Growth Learn five practical ways to make every feedback conversation more productive, more encouraging, and more likely to inspire lasting growth. Conversation is where leadership happens

Performance Conversations: Clarity Is Kindness

By Cathie Leimbach • July 7, 2026
Most leaders want better performance. They want employees who take ownership, meet expectations, solve problems, and continue growing. Yet many leaders seldom initiate performance conversations – and when they do, it doesn’t go well. Leaders often hesitate because they fear discouraging people. Employees, meanwhile, don't know if they are missing the target. This can be costly. Research highlighted in McKinsey's Courageous Conversations article found that organizations with strong performance practices are four times more likely to outperform their peers. Yet fewer than one-third of employees believe performance reviews actually help them improve. The problem is not just a lack of performance conversations. It's a lack of clarity. The article points to a simple but powerful distinction: separate the hardware of performance from the software of performance. The hardware includes facts, goals, KPIs, commitments, timelines, and standards. The software includes tone, timing, relationships, empathy, and intent. When leaders clearly explain the facts while delivering them with care and respect, employees become more receptive to improvement. Strong leaders don't judge people—they diagnose work.  They focus on behaviors, actions, and results rather than character. They clarify expectations, provide coaching, and create frequent opportunities for alignment. In high-performing cultures, clarity isn't viewed as criticism. It is viewed as support. As the article notes, "Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is a burden." Employees deserve to know where they stand, what success looks like, and how to improve. When leaders provide that clarity with dignity and respect, performance conversations become growth conversations. And growth is where better results begin. Download the Performance Conversations: Hardware & Software Checklist for Leaders and learn how to have everyday performance discussions that include opportunities for growth, accountability, and stronger results.