One-on-One Meetings Reduce Employee Quitting

Cathie Leimbach • July 18, 2023

The role of a people manager or supervisor is to achieve organizational goals through the work of other people.  The leaders' success is usually measured by the results achieved by their team. With this in mind, highly successful leaders proactively support each of their team members to be successful. They tend to hold regular one-on-one meetings with each employee, increasing both productivity and retention.


Because team members have differing experiences, responsibilities, strengths, weaknesses, and personalities, the best way to support their unique contributions and needs is to have regular one-on-one meetings.  When employees have quality weekly one-on-ones with their manager, they are more likely to be clear on what is expected of them, share where they are struggling, get answers to their important but not urgent questions, and receive relevant training to enhance their skills.  This increases the individual's and the organization's productivity and morale. 


During one-on-one meetings the manager can learn something about the employee's personal life, give specific praise for areas of employee success, and provide constructive support in areas of uncertainty or underperformance.  This helps the employee feel valued and respected, reducing employee quitting and improving their work quality and quantity.


Ideally, most of the one-on-one meeting is spent on the employee's agenda.  Rapport is built when the first few minutes is used for  personal updates or interests.  Then, the manager can ask, "What would you like to talk about during out time together?" Now, the employee has the floor for whatever is on their mind.  The employee may provide a progress report, clarify expectations, or get help overcoming a stumbling block.  Sometimes, they may share a family challenge that is interfering with their focus at work. Another important question for the manager to ask is, "How can I help you be successful this week?"  This gives an employee permission to ask their leader to remove an obstacle whether it is bureaucracy, information, or time. 


Many organizations find that 30-minute one-on-ones provide the most effective balance of having enough time for meaningful discussion and not taking too much time away from revenue-generating activities.  If that seems far too long for you, even 10-minute employee-focused one-on-ones can yield great results. 


One-on-ones don't waste time.  They are so effective at increasing morale and productivity that they may generate the highest rate of return on your payroll dollars.  


When could you start having weekly one-on-ones with each of your employees to reduce turnover and improve productivity?  Register for - and attend - our free 45-minute webinar “3 Tips to Reduce Employee Quitting”.   

Listening Is Key to Effective One-on-Ones

By Cathie Leimbach • September 15, 2026
Tom walked into his one-on-one feeling relieved. For a week, he had been struggling with two critical assignments. His supervisor had delegated them without much context, and Tom wasn’t clear about the desired results or how to get started. Surely, he thought, we can sort this out today. Fifteen minutes later, Tom walked back to his desk just as confused. His supervisor had done nearly all the talking—reviewing priorities, sharing updates, and reminding Tom that the two assignments were important. But he never asked the question Tom needed to hear: “What do you need from me to be successful?” When One-on-Ones Become One-Way Conversations This happens more often than we might think. Leaders enter one-on-ones with a list of things they need to communicate. They talk through the list, ask if there are any questions, and move on to the next meeting. But a one-on-one should do more than transfer information. Its purpose is to help the employee succeed. That requires conversation—and conversation requires listening. Ask what the employee wants to discuss. Listen for what is getting in the way. Do they need clearer expectations? More training? Better resources? Help making a decision? Encouragement that they are headed in the right direction? Then determine together what each of you will do next. Try This in Your Next One-on-One Instead of starting with your agenda, begin with one simple question: “What would be most helpful for us to talk about today?” Then listen. You may discover that the most valuable thing you contribute to the meeting isn’t what you say. It’s what you learn. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ If this has you thinking about the conversations you have with your team, join me at the Workplace Conversation Clinic on September 21 . Bring a question about your one-on-ones or a conversation you’re finding difficult, and let’s work through it together. RESERVE YOUR SPOT HERE

Are you Supporting Your Employees to Overcome Hurdles?

By Cathie Leimbach • September 8, 2026
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