Compassion Increases Trust

Cathie Leimbach • July 19, 2022

“People put faith in those who care beyond themselves,” says David Horsager. “And feeling cared for increases trust.”


Imagine a working environment where professional relationships are built on a base of mutual trust and respect. Such workplaces are compassionate, and in turn, happier.


Compassion is a process involving the ability to be aware of, feel, or perceive another human’s pain and to be with them or take action to relieve their suffering.


Meysam Poorkavoos believes there are three main problems that organizations have which impede showing compassion in the workplace.


1.       Their workplace lacks an open culture where employees are comfortable sharing their issues and problems.

2.      Managers aren’t really interested in people. They focus on outcomes without caring about the people who achieve them.

3.      Policies and procedures tend to get in the way so people don’t see when staff need support.


Poorkavoos suggests 7 tips for increasing compassion and trust in the workplace.


1.      Get to know your colleagues better. Ask them about their life.

2.      Offer to help a co-worker when they are struggling with something that you are strong at.

3.      Notice a colleague’s mental well-being and ask how you can help them.

4.      Praise employees in front of others to show appreciation for their good work.

5.      Be a kind, supportive leader or manager by encouraging them and offering flexibility.

6.      Encourage constructive criticism to help colleagues be more effective at work.

7.      Start with self-compassion by giving yourself slack when you have a bad day.


We are all human. We are emotional beings. Let’s help everyone in our workplace feel that they matter as an individual and as an employee. Increase workplace trust and happiness by being compassionate with your colleagues and yourself.

 

Listening Is Key to Effective One-on-Ones

By Cathie Leimbach • September 15, 2026
Tom walked into his one-on-one feeling relieved. For a week, he had been struggling with two critical assignments. His supervisor had delegated them without much context, and Tom wasn’t clear about the desired results or how to get started. Surely, he thought, we can sort this out today. Fifteen minutes later, Tom walked back to his desk just as confused. His supervisor had done nearly all the talking—reviewing priorities, sharing updates, and reminding Tom that the two assignments were important. But he never asked the question Tom needed to hear: “What do you need from me to be successful?” When One-on-Ones Become One-Way Conversations This happens more often than we might think. Leaders enter one-on-ones with a list of things they need to communicate. They talk through the list, ask if there are any questions, and move on to the next meeting. But a one-on-one should do more than transfer information. Its purpose is to help the employee succeed. That requires conversation—and conversation requires listening. Ask what the employee wants to discuss. Listen for what is getting in the way. Do they need clearer expectations? More training? Better resources? Help making a decision? Encouragement that they are headed in the right direction? Then determine together what each of you will do next. Try This in Your Next One-on-One Instead of starting with your agenda, begin with one simple question: “What would be most helpful for us to talk about today?” Then listen. You may discover that the most valuable thing you contribute to the meeting isn’t what you say. It’s what you learn. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ If this has you thinking about the conversations you have with your team, join me at the Workplace Conversation Clinic on September 21 . Bring a question about your one-on-ones or a conversation you’re finding difficult, and let’s work through it together. RESERVE YOUR SPOT HERE

Are you Supporting Your Employees to Overcome Hurdles?

By Cathie Leimbach • September 8, 2026
For weeks, Mary had been frustrated with frequently occurring delays in shipping. During her one-on-one with her supervisor, she finally told him what was going on. He listened, asked questions, and said he would look into it. She left the meeting feeling encouraged. Maybe this situation would finally get resolved. A week later, her supervisor started their one-on-one by asking “So, what do you want to talk about today?” He didn’t mention what he had learned about the problem in shipping. “Of course not!,” she thought. “Nothing is going to change.” So, she sadly replied, “Nothing really. Everything’s fine.” Sometimes employees stop talking because experience has taught them that speaking up doesn’t make any difference. One-on-ones are an opportunity to change that. Give the employee a voice in what gets discussed. Help them address bottlenecks. Follow-up on your to dos from the conversation. It can be as simple as: “Last week we talked about the shipping problem. I checked into it, and here’s what I found out. A possible solution would be this .... How do think that might work? ... What other ideas do you have?” The message is clear: I heard you. I remembered. What you have to say matters. And when employees believe their concerns and ideas matter, they’re more likely to keep speaking up. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ What Workplace Conversation Are You Struggling With? Maybe an employee has stopped talking. Maybe you’re dealing with accountability, conflict, attendance, performance—or simply a conversation you’re not quite sure how to approach. Bring it to the FREE Workplace Conversations Clinic on September 21. Join Cathie Leimbach and other leaders to talk through real workplace people challenges, hear different perspectives, and get ideas for moving forward. Register Here