Compassion Increases Trust

Cathie Leimbach • July 19, 2022

“People put faith in those who care beyond themselves,” says David Horsager. “And feeling cared for increases trust.”


Imagine a working environment where professional relationships are built on a base of mutual trust and respect. Such workplaces are compassionate, and in turn, happier.


Compassion is a process involving the ability to be aware of, feel, or perceive another human’s pain and to be with them or take action to relieve their suffering.


Meysam Poorkavoos believes there are three main problems that organizations have which impede showing compassion in the workplace.


1.       Their workplace lacks an open culture where employees are comfortable sharing their issues and problems.

2.      Managers aren’t really interested in people. They focus on outcomes without caring about the people who achieve them.

3.      Policies and procedures tend to get in the way so people don’t see when staff need support.


Poorkavoos suggests 7 tips for increasing compassion and trust in the workplace.


1.      Get to know your colleagues better. Ask them about their life.

2.      Offer to help a co-worker when they are struggling with something that you are strong at.

3.      Notice a colleague’s mental well-being and ask how you can help them.

4.      Praise employees in front of others to show appreciation for their good work.

5.      Be a kind, supportive leader or manager by encouraging them and offering flexibility.

6.      Encourage constructive criticism to help colleagues be more effective at work.

7.      Start with self-compassion by giving yourself slack when you have a bad day.


We are all human. We are emotional beings. Let’s help everyone in our workplace feel that they matter as an individual and as an employee. Increase workplace trust and happiness by being compassionate with your colleagues and yourself.

 

Be Kind to Your Team AND Hold Them Accountable

By Cathie Leimbach • November 3, 2026
Tammy was furious. For the third day in a row, the hydraulic hose assembly line was falling behind. How could they keep customers happy when production was this slow? The target was 50 hoses per hour, with at least 98% meeting quality standards. Yet, after two hours, Tom's team had produced only 65 hoses, and six had failed inspection. Tammy marched over to Tom, the line supervisor. “This is unacceptable! You know our targets. Get your people moving!” She stormed off, frustrated and worried about falling further behind. Tom felt embarrassed and discouraged. He told his team to work faster. An hour later, production was still behind, and more hoses had failed inspection. Leadership Tip – Correct Kindly, Solve Problems Together Corrective action doesn't need to be harsh. A calm, respectful conversation can improve both performance and trust. Clarify the gap. Remind the employee of the agreed expectation and describe what you've observed. “Tom, our target is 50 hoses per hour, with 98% meeting standards. Your team produced 65 in two hours, and six failed inspection.” Explore causes and solutions together. Ask, “What's getting in the way?” Listen carefully. Perhaps a crimping machine needs adjustment or a new employee needs coaching. Ask, “What could we do differently? How can I help?” Agree on next steps. Ask Tom to summarize what he'll do. State what you'll do to support him. Agree on when you'll review progress. Bottom Line Kindness doesn't mean lowering expectations. It means helping people meet them. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ Be kind. Be clear. Hold people accountable. Have a conversation you’ve been putting off because you don’t want to sound harsh—or let the issue slide? Bring it to the Workplace Conversations Clinic on November 16 to discuss addressing the problem with kindness, setting clear expectations, and agreeing on next steps. Reserve your spot for the November 16 Workplace Conversations Clinic → HERE

Everyone Noticed. No One Said Anything.

By Cathie Leimbach • October 27, 2026
“The same production line’s data is late again,” someone said. “Are we just supposed to keep begging for it?” Maya looked up. Two employees had stopped their own work to help track down the data missing from the weekly report to headquarters. She knew there had been delays. She hadn’t paid attention to how often or what happened when the data came in late. Each Friday, John sent the report out, and Maya moved on. Her team hadn’t moved on. They were tired of disrupting their own work to address the same problem week after week. The Symptom Late work. Repeated mistakes. People asking why they should bother when others don’t do their part. When there is a pattern of leaders letting missed deadlines slide, employees notice. Silence can leave people thinking that missed commitments are acceptable, even when that isn’t what the leader intends. Monitoring performance gives leaders a clearer picture of what is happening—and something specific to discuss with those involved. The Tip Here are three steps to noticing problems and sharing your performance concerns. Track the data. Look at information tied to the work, such as deadlines and errors. Maya could track how often data for the weekly reports arrived late. Walk around. Spend time where the work happens. Notice what people are doing and how one person’s work affects another’s. Maya saw two employees put their work aside to finish someone else’s task. Share what you find. Bring the facts and your observations to the attention of the person involved. Maya could say: “Your weekly production data was submitted late three of the last four weeks. Today, I saw Lee and Sam stop their work to get the raw data and do the analysis.” That makes it clear to the employee that submitting data late is not acceptable. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ Is there a pattern at your workplace that you’ve noticed but haven’t addressed? Join our Workplace Conversations Clinic on November 16 to discuss addressing performance concerns. Bring a situation you’ve been letting slide. Reserve your place HERE