Which Leadership Values Limit Your Success?

Cathie Leimbach • October 15, 2020

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As a leader, I have been guilty of limiting the organization's or team's success by violating Stephen R Covey’s second habit, “begin with the end in mind”.


When I have a vague idea of what I want to achieve, my systematic brain starts listing the tasks and possible ways to get there. When it is clear that I have bitten off more than I can chew, I may delegate pieces and step-by-step processes to others. And the struggle begins. 


My team members are usually high capacity people. They can think on their own. They can often use their creativity and strengths to get the work done more effectively than I would have.


But, if I don’t accurately describe what I want them to achieve, there is confusion instead of clarity. If I challenge them to see which person can come up with the best plan to get the work done, I encourage internal competition instead of collaboration. And if I examine their progress several times a day and make little changes that don’t even improve the finished product, they will be groaning about micromanagement rather than feeling empowered to put their best foot forward.


I have also had experiences in leading healthy, high performance teams. In these situations, every team member enhances their competence, utilizing more and more of their potential. I have seen these outcomes when I encouraged clarity, collaboration, and empowerment.


By engaging the full team in discussions about our goals, everyone understands the desired results. Once there is clarity about where the team is headed, team members can collaborate on how to achieve the goals, considering several approaches, developing consensus on the best ones, and assigning roles that leverage each person’s strengths. Everyone now feels trusted to achieve the goals and empowered to make adjustments to the plan along the way. This leads to a healthier, happier, more successful workplace.


Yet, it is common for employees to experience confusion, internal competition, and micromanagement. Few managers regularly provide clarity, reward collaboration, or encourage empowerment. Most leaders have no training in leading people and they aren’t intentional about their leadership practices. Although employees generally wish to add meaningful value at work, their leaders often crush their spirit and initiative, preventing them from reaching their potential.


How can you improve your leadership style so you don’t hold your team members, your team, your organization, and yourself back?


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Feedback Isn't a Download. It's a Dialogue.

By Cathie Leimbach • July 14, 2026
Most leaders know they should give feedback. Yet many avoid it. Not because they don't care, but because they worry they'll discourage someone, create conflict, or say the wrong thing. Unfortunately, when feedback is delayed, vague, or avoided, employees don't feel supported—they feel uncertain. Research highlighted in a recent McKinsey Quarterly article found that employees who receive regular, specific feedback are significantly more engaged than those who don't. The problem isn't that employees dislike feedback. They dislike feedback that feels judgmental, unclear, or disconnected from their growth. The strongest leaders understand something important: Feedback isn't a download. It's a dialogue. When leaders approach feedback as an employee development conversation rather than a list of mistakes, people become more open to hearing hard truths and more motivated to improve. Effective feedback communicates two powerful messages at the same time: I respect you. I believe you can grow. That combination changes everything. The best leaders don't simply evaluate past performance; they help employees see future potential. Rather than focusing only on what went wrong, they provide feedforward —guidance on what someone can do to become even more successful. High-performing organizations understand a simple truth: Improvement requires input. The question for leaders isn't whether to give feedback. It's whether our feedback leaves people feeling smaller—or stronger. Feedback doesn't change people. Better conversations do. Download our one-page guide: 5 Practices That Turn Feedback Into Growth Learn five practical ways to make every feedback conversation more productive, more encouraging, and more likely to inspire lasting growth. Conversation is where leadership happens

Performance Conversations: Clarity Is Kindness

By Cathie Leimbach • July 7, 2026
Most leaders want better performance. They want employees who take ownership, meet expectations, solve problems, and continue growing. Yet many leaders seldom initiate performance conversations – and when they do, it doesn’t go well. Leaders often hesitate because they fear discouraging people. Employees, meanwhile, don't know if they are missing the target. This can be costly. Research highlighted in McKinsey's Courageous Conversations article found that organizations with strong performance practices are four times more likely to outperform their peers. Yet fewer than one-third of employees believe performance reviews actually help them improve. The problem is not just a lack of performance conversations. It's a lack of clarity. The article points to a simple but powerful distinction: separate the hardware of performance from the software of performance. The hardware includes facts, goals, KPIs, commitments, timelines, and standards. The software includes tone, timing, relationships, empathy, and intent. When leaders clearly explain the facts while delivering them with care and respect, employees become more receptive to improvement. Strong leaders don't judge people—they diagnose work.  They focus on behaviors, actions, and results rather than character. They clarify expectations, provide coaching, and create frequent opportunities for alignment. In high-performing cultures, clarity isn't viewed as criticism. It is viewed as support. As the article notes, "Clarity is a kindness, and ambiguity is a burden." Employees deserve to know where they stand, what success looks like, and how to improve. When leaders provide that clarity with dignity and respect, performance conversations become growth conversations. And growth is where better results begin. Download the Performance Conversations: Hardware & Software Checklist for Leaders and learn how to have everyday performance discussions that include opportunities for growth, accountability, and stronger results.