Understanding the Steady Behavioral Style

Cathie Leimbach • August 31, 2021

Being aware of your and your employees' primary and backup workplace behavior styles will make you a better leader. This self-awareness helps you to:

  • more quickly engage and motivate each of your employees
  • recognize your own strengths and weaknesses
  • communicate more effectively with each employee by tailoring conversations to fit their workplace behavioral style.

 

A Steady behavioral work style combines higher-than-average responsiveness with a comparatively low level of assertiveness. Individuals with this work style value relationships and harmony. They tend to be sympathetic to the needs of others and are very sensitive to what lies below someone's outward behavior. 

 

Members of your team with this primary work style tend to have the following strengths:

  • patience
  • easy-going
  • empathetic
  • loyal
  • dependable
  • sensitive to the feelings of others
  • puts people above tasks and projects

 

They are most likely to use empathy and understanding to solve interpersonal problems. An individual with this work style will work to mediate conflicts between other employees. The trust they show in others often brings out the best in their colleagues.

 

Limitations to this work style include:

  • indecisive at times
  • over-accommodating
  • may sacrifice results for the sake of harmony
  • avoids confrontation even when it is needed
  • resists change
  • remembers hurts caused by others

 

Leaders with a Steady style will benefit from being aware of the constraints of their style and becoming conscious of the need to face confrontations effectively when needed. Their tendency to keep things harmonious can impact their performance and overall effectiveness. Working on being open to change and becoming more flexible will make them stronger leaders. Their empathy and trust in others often brings out the best in their employees. They plan ahead and move steadily towards the completion of projects. However, leaders with a steady style can be over-accommodating and have difficulty making decisions.  This can lead to their employees being unclear about expectations for performance.

 

Coaching employees with a Steady work style will almost always include supporting them in taking initiative and being more comfortable with change. Helping them with the tools to manage conflict effectively will improve their performance within a team. 

 

Make sure that they are in the correct position within the team. These employees are good listeners and have tactful ways of communicating. Relationships are essential to them, and they have a strong inner drive to contribute. Their tendency to take on more and be accommodating can create situations where they are overextended. This will lead to performance issues. 

 

Providing feedback on the quality of their work will be motivating and keep these employees engaged. It is essential to reassure them of their self-worth and recognize their accomplishments. They will react better to input provided empathetically and being allowed to communicate their thoughts and ideas. 

 

Because Steady employees are excellent at working with others, they will thrive when provided with opportunities to demonstrate creativity, work with and mentor others, and communicate.

Build Thinkers, Not Followers

By Cathie Leimbach • September 2, 2026
Many leaders don't set out to become the answer to every question. It happens gradually. Someone asks their leader how to do it because it's faster than figuring it out. Another employee waits because they don't want to make the wrong decision. Before long, you're answering questions your team should be able to answer on their own. The good news is that you don't have to be the answer to every question. You can build a team that thinks, solves problems, and takes ownership without you giving up appropriate control. Here are a few places to start: Ask Before You Answer When someone brings you a problem, don't start by giving them the solution. Instead, ask:  What do you think? What options have you considered? What would you do if I wasn't here? People grow when they think through problems—not when someone else thinks for them. Let Small Decisions Stay Small. Not every decision needs your approval. Look for low-risk opportunities where employees or supervisors can tell the employee to make the call themselves. Confidence grows with experience. Praise Initiative, Even When It's Imperfect. If people believe they'll be criticized every time they make a decision, they'll stop making them. When someone takes ownership, recognize their initiative. Coaching them to make a better decision is easier in the long run than making every decision yourself. Notice the Questions That Keep Coming Back. If you're answering the same questions week after week, don't just answer them faster. Ask why they're still being asked. The issue may not be your people. It may be an unclear expectation, an inconsistent process, lack of training, or a conversation that never happened. Helping people think for themselves doesn't happen in one meeting. It happens through dozens of everyday collaborative conversations that gradually build confidence, judgment, and ownership. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ You don't have to figure it all out alone. Bring your workplace people challenges to the FREE Workplace Conversations Clinic September 21. Join Cathie Leimbach and other leaders for a practical conversation about the people challenges you're facing—and leave with fresh perspectives you can put to work. Register HERE

When the Boss "Bosses People Around"

By Cathie Leimbach • August 25, 2026
This probably isn't the company you imagined building. You wanted a team that solved problems, took ownership, and helped move the business forward. Instead, somewhere along the way, you became the person who answers every question, makes every decision, and tells everyone what to do. The interruptions never end. Every day starts with a plan and ends with another list of problems that somehow became yours to solve. You work harder than ever yet still feel like you're falling behind. Another good employee resigns. Another supervisor struggles. Another improvement initiative loses momentum. You leave work mentally exhausted, wondering why everyone seems busy—but so little actually changes. Your employees feel it, too. When people learn that every decision runs through the boss, they eventually stop making decisions of their own. When leaders spend most of their time directing every task, correcting every mistake, and solving every problem, people gradually stop thinking for themselves. They become cautious instead of confident. They stop offering ideas because they're not sure anyone wants to hear them. Ownership fades. Enthusiasm disappears. The culture slowly shifts from people wanting to contribute to people simply trying to get through the day. Ironically, the more a boss has to boss people around, the less ownership employees take. Before long, leaders become firefighters instead of business builders. Instead of building the company they envisioned, they're simply trying to survive another week. The surprising news is that this cycle usually isn't caused by a lack of effort. The frustrating part is that working harder rarely fixes it. In fact, the harder many leaders push, the more dependent their people become. What feels like the solution often becomes part of the problem. Talking through your leadership challenges with others can be helpful. Ask questions of your network. Get some ideas online. Sometimes another perspective helps you see what your organizational chart or production reports don't. Conversation is Where Leadership Happens™ You don't have to figure it all out alone. Bring your workplace people challenges to the FREE Workplace Conversations Clinic September 21. Join Cathie Leimbach and other leaders for a practical conversation about the people challenges you're facing—and leave with fresh perspectives you can put to work. Register Here