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Self-Reflection Questions for Personal Growth

Cathie Leimbach • October 1, 2024

Written by John Maxwell

Asking personal leadership questions is one of the most powerful and effective things you can do to improve your life and your leadership.

Great self-accountability questions often stem from a difficult situation in our lives. As people, our natural tendency when dealing with a challenge of some kind is to become frustrated. That moment of frustration presents us with a tremendous opportunity to ask self-leadership questions that help us leverage challenging situations.

John Maxwell calls these “crucible moments,” and they can be powerful teachers. We can up-level our leadership and make better choices in the moment by practicing self-reflective questions before responding.

Here are 3 simple guidelines for creating your own personal leadership questions (PLQs):

1.       Begin with “what” or “how” – avoid “why” “when” or “who.”

The word “why” in problem-solving or selling can be helpful. But when it comes to personal reflection, the “why” word can leave you powerless and feed victim thinking. Asking yourself “what” or “how” will stimulate more productivity.

 Example: “What did I love? What did I learn?”

 

2.       Contain an “I” – avoid “they,” “them” or “we.”

“I” questions enable you to be assertive and help you take responsibility for your own actions. Using “we” instead of “I” gives you an opportunity to pass the blame if something goes wrong. “I” questions also help you become aware of problematic or redundant behavior. You will take responsibility for your own thoughts when you use “I” questions.

 Example: “How is my heart? Do I love what I am doing?”


3.       Focus on action – avoid inaction.

Effective leaders make an intentional effort to prompt action in themselves through personal leadership questions. They gain insight through reflection and hold themselves accountable to turn insight into action. A question is only as productive as what it drives you to do. It’s important that we are honest with ourselves and then focus on how to grow.

Example: “How can I better live out my values in my day-to-day life?”

Nobody understands you better than you. But you have to be honest with yourself in order to grow.

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Trust is like the glue that holds a team together and makes it thrive. When people on a team trust each other, it's like they're saying, "Hey, I've got your back." This trust lets everyone bring their best ideas and skills to the table without worrying about being judged or overshadowed. When you feel trusted at work, you're more likely to take risks and share new ideas. You're not afraid to step up when challenges arise. This kind of environment isn't just productive; it's where problems get solved in ways no one person could do alone. But trust isn't a one-way street. It's about finding that balance. The best professionals know how to be open and vulnerable while also setting clear boundaries. They understand when to give trust as a way to build strong relationships and when to protect themselves from being taken advantage of. The key is finding that sweet spot: trusting enough to foster collaboration and teamwork but also staying grounded to navigate professional relationships wisely. This balance creates a workplace where people feel safe to speak up and take risks, yet everyone is accountable for their actions. Trust isn't just nice to have—it's essential for a thriving team and a successful career.  👉 For additional tips on building trust, check out David Horsager’s 8 Pillars of Trust from his book The Trust Edge: David Horsager’s 8 Pillars of Trust (PDF)

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By Cathie Leimbach • March 4, 2025
Change is one of those things that’s easier said than done, right? We all love the idea of progress and innovation, but when it comes down to actually shaking things up in our workplaces—well, let's just say not everyone is on board from the get-go. Did you know that around 70% of the time, those big change efforts in organizations flop? It’s not because people hate new ideas. It’s more about feeling unsure when things aren’t predictable anymore. We like our routines! So, how do you actually make change stick? Well, it’s all about how you sell it. Leaders need to really explain why these changes matter, not just for the company’s bottom line, but for everyone involved. Keeping everyone in the loop and being straight-up about what’s happening can build trust and calm those nerves. Here’s the secret sauce: get your team involved early on. Show them some quick wins to get everyone excited. And don’t ignore the stuff that’s gonna hurt a bit—acknowledge those losses and help people through them. Oh, and don’t forget the training and support they need to actually succeed in this new setup. The best changes aren’t about tearing everything down and starting over. They’re about building on what’s already great and moving toward something even better. When people feel like they’re part of the plan, not just watching it happen, that’s when magic really starts to happen.  So, think about it: how does your company handle change? Got a game plan for making sure your leaders and teams are all on the same page? If you’re looking to level up your leadership skills and tackle change head-on, drop Cathie a line at cathie@agonleadership.com or shoot a text to 440-320-3113 with “Workplace Leadership” in the subject line. Let’s chat about how to make your next big change a smooth ride for everyone involved.
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